Okay……….there’s two!
I feel really vulnerable about it as it’s when I’m at my weakest.
I like a guy.
Like. Really like a guy!
Not an online guy or a guy I think I like because I think he may like me and he said ‘Hey’. Seriously thought shit like this would stop in my thirties! Clearly I ignored the countless warnings from ‘Sex and the City’ and ‘Bridget Jones’ Diary’ – they definitely didn’t have it together.
Anyway, I digress! Back in the room.
I’m going to put on my ‘courageous cape’ (actually don’t own one of these) and let him know I like him. By……
asking him if he wants to go out for a drink!
Okay so I know this may not be a BIG thing for most people. But to me its massive!
Clearly my ways of trying to make it ‘known’ to guys in the past that I like them hasn’t worked.
So, it’s time to cut to the chase and just ask.
Regardless if the answer is: yes, no or………..silence. I’ll be so pleased that I’ve asked.
My career took off when I started to make it known what I wanted. Four promotions in 3.5years was possible because I asked and took action.
- Alongside the four – Yes’
- I got No’s
- And even a silence… 2 years later, I’m still waiting to hear whether I got the job after having an interview! I knew the answer when I left the room but still they ignored me after countless calls and emails (they practically turned me into a stalker)
I got rejected and I’m still here and definitely in a better position than if I’d got that job.
Rejection sucks. But rejection from myself is no longer an option. I certainly shouldn’t be the one standing in the way of getting what I want it!
Whatever the answer is when I ask him out, I know that I’ll be in a better position than I am now. The unknown!
So wish me luck π€
(I’m also hoping he doesn’t read this blog – now that would be awkward).
Oh yes, the other confession.
I think I’m really nearly an adult!
Last night whilst changing my bedding. A thought crossed my mind that maybe I should iron it!
WTF!!
Can this be happening?
I immediately shook the ridiculous thought from my mind and left the iron in the cupboard.
I’m part schoolgirl with a crush and part old-maid wanting to iron things!
Here’s hoping you have a great week x
Emma x
p.s. If you have any tips on how to ask a guy out without looking desperate or sounding too awkward – throw them my way.
p.p.s. If you have any tips on how I can stop thinking about ironing before it gets to the stage where I’m grabbing pants and socks – throw them my way – right now!! Seriously!!
Hahaha I don’t see anything wrong ironing!! My boyfriend is 22 and he irons everything all the time lol. But I think asking him to go out for drinks is a great way to ask him out!! Good luck. ππ
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Uh oh! Do you iron bedding and socks? π Oh wow, he must really enjoy it. The only chore I like is washing up! Thank you. Will keep you posted. π¬
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Hahaha mostly clothes except Idk about socks but he has done the bedding lol I, myself, don’t like any chores π looking forward to your next post. π
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Haha! He’s a keeper if he does all the chores π. Thank you π
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lol he is because he does π
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How about drinks or coffee? Some people choose not to drink and that gives them another choice. Good luck and report back!
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Yeah great advice, thank you. Will do……
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Hey! Just catching up on your posts as I wasn’t getting any of them through WP!
If I’ve learnt anything by being in my 30s it’s that you need to act the opposite of how you did in your 20s when it comes to important things.
(*attempting not to deeply offend anyone in their 20s* …) Women, obviously I’m including myself here, in their 20s are naturally self obsessed and mostly act like teenagers but it’s disguised by looking at bit older and having a semblance of a job. The whims and spontaneous “fun” of that decade doesn’t particularly translate into the ACTUAL life of being in your 30s especially if you are still “dating ” (uh cringy word ) and trying to find something and someone meaningful. So coquettish, playing hard to get, mildly disparaging flirtatious behaviour doesn’t really work for anyone who’s serious about meeting a decent person.
What I am trying to say in this round about rant,is if you like someone you’re attractive, confident and (is I won’t say mature) not childish enough to say , “Kev, I like you a lot. Do you want to get together? ” (I hope his name isn’t Kev – weird!π)
I could have easily just said,yep just be straight with him. But I like a good rant!
Have a lovely day x
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Hello. I’m playing catch up with responses after a busy bank holiday weekend. I haven’t been getting updates through from WP either so have a lot of your posts and others to catch up on π
Hehe! I loved your rant, such true and wise words. He wasn’t called Kev although I wish he was now, would have been spooky funny!
Well I was straightforward and although the answer was no, I feel much better knowing. So now to find my Kev π x
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Hey! No prob. The same thing happens to me all the time. Are you listening WP? Stop effing with us, man!
I can’t tell you how much I am hoping you find a lovely man called Kev. I need a wedding invite if that happens! π
I read your update post. I will comment there. But I’m glad you got your closure. β€β€πΊπΊ
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